How to do Lesbian Sexting
You can write erotic e-mails. You can have phone sex. You can get filthy sext. Offered all three that your partner is utilizing her private e-mail or mobile phone, and not a company-provided device, and that your woman isn’t sexting on company time.
However I don’t believe you desired my permission, I think you desired my recommendations, so …
Give sexting a shot before your sweetheart’s head overseas, if you do not already send out each other filthy messages. Which is truly all sexting is!
Sexting can be as innocent as stating “I’m lying here thinking of last weekend” (Hey pervy coworker! Last weekend when we ran that 5K together!!) or as hardcore and apparent as saying, “I’m so horny considering your fantastic soft curves/ass/perfect body/. When you get home, I’m going to tie you to the bed and make you come so hard with my fist/mouth/fingers/ all the above.”
Then you can talk about exactly what you like, exactly what you don’t like, how it felt to check out that sext in the grocery line. You know, exercise the kinks before she goes.
Sex therapist Vanessa Marin offers some super-simple sexting scripts to obtain you begun with sexting if you do not know wth to say. Take a comparable method with phone sex. And if you’re fretted about blushing or looking dumb, do not Facetime/Skype.
For sexual emails, compose whatever turns you/her on. If you develop writer’s block, describe a preferred memory you have of the two of you together. Retell a special time together utilizing detailed language and emotion. Or develop something you ‘d like to do together (benefit points if it’s a fantasy she’s discussed to you or vice versa), utilize your creativity to explain how it may work, and e-mail that. You could also co-write a sexual story and make a game out of it. Compose a paragraph, email it to your partner, have her fill in the next paragraph, and so on.
I presume you’re stressed about any job-related ramifications for your partner, i.e., a colleague seeing a dirty pic you send, or your girlfriend leaving up an erotic email while taking a restroom break, and not any negative ramifications on your own. If so, let your sweetheart set any guidelines for her convenience and task security and shift them as need be.
Treat this as a fun puzzle to solve together, and not like a relationship-killing obstacle, and HAVE FUN! Creatively approaching restraints like this can help you 2 grow closer together in spite of your short-term distance.